Truth…Honesty

Truth is what we say.

Honesty is what we do and why do it.

Truth is those words that come out of the mouth.

Honesty is those actions that come from the heart. Honesty is about our motives for doing what we do.

Yes, it’s good to tell the truth but it is far more liberating for everyone involved to be honest.

Here’s an example:

Truth (what’s spoken): While dating, I may tell people, I don’t want to be married. I will be a good person and great companion in a relationship. We can live and/or act like we’re married but I’m just not the marrying type; not even interested in marrying anyone.

Honesty (what’s in the heart): I am not interested in marriage to the current person that I am dating. My heart belongs to someone else. I am leaving the door open in my heart for him/her to return so I can marry that person.

Do you see the difference between truth and honesty? I get it. I understand that telling the truth can hurt because sometimes the truth hurts. But not being honest with people (including ourselves) causes a pain so devastating that the damage can sometimes be beyond repair.

Let’s choose honesty in every area of our lives. It will lead to success and peace in all of our endeavors. See honesty is more than our words; it tells others--and ourselves--about our character.

Truth or honesty…you choose.