Forgive...How Many Times?

I have recently had a change in perspective regarding this question. I have known for most of my life that the expectation is to forgive everyone an unlimited number of times. However, until recently, I thought this applied to every time a person’s words/actions were unpleasant towards to me. But oh my, I have found myself recently forgiving the same person for the same the incident multiple times even sometimes multiple times in one day. I am learning that, for me, forgiveness is ongoing especially when the offense cuts really deep. You know a deep cut  like being betrayed by someone that you NEVER EVER imagined would betray you…that’s more than a flesh wound—that’s a heart break.

But I have to tell you that it liberating to know that I can forgive over and over and over again. (It’s even more refreshing to realize that I may have to do this multiple times and that it is absolutely okay.) I’m sure there are some people in my life who have had to extend the same continued forgiveness to me.

So what about you, how many times have you had to forgive the same person for the same act? Did you do it? Or better yet, how many times have you benefited from someone else’s continual forgiveness towards you? I encourage us to be willing to give what we so easily accept…and forgive as many times as needed. Forgiveness does far more good for you than the other person.

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